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What are the Pros and Cons of Surrogacy


Today, there are many couples as well as individuals who hope to have a child. However, in some situations, this is not possible due to certain medical complications, history of miscarriage, or the biological mother's age.

Over the years, the process of using a surrogate mother has become a way for parents to have a child by using a third party to carry the child until birth. Although this can be an ideal solution, though, the concept of surrogacy is an extremely controversial issue.

In fact, regardless of how much an individual or a couple may want a child, there are various religious organizations that will actually forbid their members from using this form of having a child. With this in mind, it is important to understand the key advantages and disadvantages of considering the surrogacy option.

The Surrogacy Process

One of the key issues that those who are both for and against surrogacy grapple with is the surrogacy procedure itself. While the process makes it possible for parents to have a child that possesses genes from one or both "biological" parents, it can also put in motion many emotional and psychological ups and downs for the intended parents.

In addition, even if both parents of the child are on board with using a surrogate mother, there are instances where it may be difficult to convince friends and family members that this is the right choice. Therefore, it is essential to take the time to thoroughly think through the entire surrogacy process and to consider all of the pertinent factors before moving forward.

The Surrogate Mother

The process of choosing who will act as the surrogate mother can also bring up some controversy. In some cases, the biological parents may opt to use a friend or relative for this role. This, however, could cause some potentially negative issues down the road if not handled correctly medically, emotionally, and legally.

A more common approach to using a surrogate mother entails locating a candidate through a surrogacy agency. These organizations interview and carefully screen potential surrogates before suggesting them to individuals or couples who wish to use this process. Here, too, certain issues could come up with the family of the intended parents such as using a "stranger" to carry their baby.

There are also advantages and disadvantages to acting as a surrogate mother. Here, women are oftentimes well compensated for their role in this process. However, it is important that the surrogate mother completely understands the lengthy medical and emotional process that she will go through before, during, and after her pregnancy.

Time Considerations

When using the process of surrogacy to have a child, there are also time factors that are involved. Before the actual pregnancy process begins, there is time spent by the biological parent or parents in researching the available options. This can entail becoming familiar with the medical and legal procedures that will be occurring throughout.

In any case, however, the biggest advantage to the surrogacy process has the potential to outweigh any of the disadvantages in that regardless of the time, cost, and other factors that are involved, a loving parent or parents will soon have a child to love.

A baby will make love stronger, days shorter, nights longer, home happier, the past forgotten, and the future worth living for.

A new baby is like the beginning of all things - wonder, hope, a dream of possibilities.

When you look at your life, your greatest happiness is your family’s happiness.

Making the decision to have a child is momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body. 


A baby has a special way of adding joy in every single day.

A baby is sunshine and moonbeams and more brightening your world as never before.

Babies touch the world with love.

When your child looks into your eyes and you know it’s yours, you know what it means to be alive.